Life Between Pride and Despair: Finding a Balance in Pastoral Ministry

Abstract

This paper attempts to explore the role of a humble confidence in the pastoral ministry. The research for this paper is based on several books and interviews from experienced pastors, college and seminary professors, and licensed counselors. The goal of this paper is to encourage pastors to avoid thinking too highly or lowly of themselves. This paper seeks to explore certain triggers and causes that can lead a pastor to pride or despair. There are several instances in the life of a pastor where he is more susceptible to both. These instances are listed and explored for the sake of warning. Furthermore, this paper seeks to explore the dangers that pride and despair can have on the ministry of a pastor, offering solutions to keep him balanced as he serves God’s people. After reading this thesis, the author hopes that the reader will understand that pride and despair in the ministry can cause him serious problems. More importantly, this paper seeks to point the pastor away from himself for help in the ministry: to his Savior and to his brother pastors. It seeks to encourage the pastor to develop good habits such as carrying the Christian cross, talking to brother pastors, and having a regular devotional life.